The Seance Newsletter - September 2007

Thoughts From Suzane

Once again, summer is ending too soon, but I vow that I'm going into fall with the thoughts of bringing summer with me. That shouldn't be too hard, since I consider the fall foliage one of the special blessings of living in the Northeast. I spent the end of Labor Day weekend in the "Red Mountains" of Utah, so it is only apropos that the stunning fall colors are my next vision to behold back at home! So off I go, bringing my thoughts of what to look forward to into the fall.

I know that many of you who have children have confessed to be happy they are going back to school. For others it’s a reminder a different reality, juggling everyone’s schedule within the family. This thought entered my mind over the summer, when I came upon an amazing couple who have chosen the role of parents, but with huge challenges. This couple's courage went beyond the place that many of us bluntly fear. Their first child was adopted - actually, they adopted the husband's sister’s daughter, because she was young and into drugs. This couple then had their first child together; however, at the age of 2, she fell into a pool and has irreparable brain damage. The mother refused to send her little girl to an institution, so she and her husband take care of her at home. This couple also recently had a baby boy who, like their other children, is a joy. Needless to say, I have nothing but admiration for this couple who was dealt a hand that most would not wish to endure. Then again, as you all know, I believe that "Everything Happens for a Reason".

There are many ways loss happens in our lives besides physical death. Sometimes those losses can be equally painful, or even more so if we have to face it everyday - for example, someone who has not taken responsibility as a parent, and who loses a close relationship with their child. Those that walk that path should have as much support as they can get. So, when thinking of how you can make a difference in someone's life, sometimes just being there to lend a hand can make an enormous difference. Fall, like spring, is a time of beginning. Why not think of the ways you can make a difference? I'm sure there are things you do now, that do make a difference. Color your thoughts, just like all the different hues we so enjoy with the coming of fall.

I am reminded of a friend whose sister had cancer; she felt helpless that she couldn't take away the illness. She then realized that she couldn't walk her sister’s path, but she could help her in many other ways. Then a group of friends all pitched together in helping out. One would take her children to school, another cleaned her house, and yet another made dinner for the family several time during the week. It is with these thoughts that so many wonderful people not only step up to the plate, but can do unbelievable acts that can make such a difference in many lives.

Speaking of stepping up to the plate, I wouldn't be doing a special organization justice if I didn't share a recent happening. As I was boarding the plane back to New York from Utah, I was reading USA Today, the favorite newspaper for the hotel traveler. I came upon a full-page article: "Best Friends" Are Called Upon to Save the Day. A non-profit organization called Focus had abused over two-hundred cats, leaving them without food and looking plenty awful! Best Friends was called to help, and once again they came to the rescue of these very needy kitties. They were able to reunite two kitties that had "chips" in them with their owners who had moved. They also have placed one-hundred cats into good homes already! They are by far an incredible organization devoted to fur families. It’s too bad that when Focus was in trouble, they didn't get help from Best Friends, since they are often called to help out when in need. My hat, gloves, socks, shoes, and, well, my clothes go off to Best Friends who really are animals' "best friends"!

I also wanted to add that the thoughts/poem at the end of last month's newsletter was written by Rumi. Everyone loved it!

One final thought: the demand and success of the private phone sessions I offered this summer lets me know, once again, the importance of my work. I've decided to devote every Tuesday to private phone sessions, UNLESS I'm traveling. So if you are on the list, please keep being patient; I will get to as many folks as I can. For others, get on the list because - as many found out this summer - you never know when an opening will come up!

I hope to see and connect with many of you during my fall travels. It always my honor to reconnect with many of you, and meet new folks along the way. Keep posted with the Calendar on my website for all updates!

Warmly,

Suzane