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The first question in this newsletter was sent to me by Linda A.:
Hi Suzane,
My name is Linda and I have written to you before and just wanted to say thank you for your response back. It was very helpful. I am also looking forward to seeing you when you come to Massachusetts.
I have a question about having the same dreams. Before my son's passing, I used to dream about the ocean and my son would be standing in the middle of the ocean. He passed when he was 25 but in my dream he is about five years old. The water would be very dark and cold looking. He wouldn't be drownining, but I couldn't get to him and I would wake up scared. It went on for a long time. Later, he passed. Now I have dreams of the ocean but the water is very calm and very clear. The sun is shining so bright I can feel the warmth of it while I'm sleeping. I'm looking down and there are people walking along the shore and they are all happy. I don't know these people. Sometimes while I am awake I can smell and hear sounds of the ocean. What does it mean?
Thank you,
Linda
Linda:
You are very welcome and I hope to be in Massachusetts in November or December. Keep posted on my website.
I think to be honest from here, the dream looks pretty straight forward. Your boy is telling you that all is calm and clear where he is now, and the sun is shining. He obviously is not alone and seems to have many people to walk that beach with. He wants you to know all this so of course, as his mother, you don't have to worry.
Blessings to you,
Suzane
This second question was sent to me by Richard:
Suzane,
I'm a proud father of two beautiful little girls and husband of almost five years to "Ann". In recent months, I have recognized an extremely strong, spiritual connection with Allie, a close friend of mine of about one year. First off, we are co-workers. Secondly, I am 16 years older than her. And third, we are dealing with similar struggles in our personal lives. I believe that it is our spiritual synchronicity that has brought us together and we have now recognized a unique love between one another. We are seemingly able to read one another's thoughts and finish each other's sentences at any given moment. We also share the ability to "feel" one another, and when we are apart we miss each other. We have both read Everything Happens For A Reason and it makes sense. However, our relationship is starting to complicate our personal lives. I want to make it very clear, we have not engaged in sexual congress of any kind. We do however share this feeling that we are meant to be together some point in this life. But the thought of losing my children keeps us at bay. Based on this information, I was wondering if you could offer me some personal insight with regards to our spiritual connection. Also, the number 414 haunts me regularly and I don't know if someone from the Other Side is trying to offer help or not.
Thank you for your help.
Richard
Richard:
A spiritual connection between two people is truly a personal issue, as I'm sure you already know and feel. When we experience something of this nature, it is often a soul connection, possibly from another time. A "unique love" now can be a carryover from a previous life. As I have said many times, love never dies. You may have re-connected at this time to share in many of the spiritual thoughts and ideas you are both feeling, but can't share as well with others. Sometimes when a spiritual connection is made between two people, it seems like you are meant to be together in every conceivable way. However, this may not always be the case. You can continue to experience a spiritual closeness with a friend who understands the metaphysical aspect of you more than anyone else, and not have it jeopardize other relationships, e.g., with children and a spouse. How you choose to handle your particular situation is, as you recognize, a most important decision, especially since there are children involved. I would suggest that you continue to explore your sharing with Allie if you can do so without having that affect what is so important to you. As an aside, and just so you know, even when I receive messages from the spirit world to convey to others, it is still totally my responsibility in how I relay that information, and I must do so in the way the messages are given to me.
All that being said . . . with regard to your 414, please read my update from last week which contains a discussion of numbers. As a general rule, you will be the only one who will be able to say what the meaning of the 414 is. But I might suggest that when your number hits, notice what it is you are thinking about and doing. That could provide a clue. Also, feel how things resonate. Perhaps then you will be able to tell whether or not you are receiving messages from a DP, and what those messages might mean. Keep in mind, however, that even if there are messages being sent to you, and connections made, you still are and will continue to be responsible for any actions you take with regard to how you act on those messages.
My thoughts of strength go out to you, and I hope you will continue staying in your center as you walk your journey.
All the best,
Suzane
This final question was asked by Linda G.:
Hi Suzane!
My father passed 12/99 and my mother on Thanksgiving (11/25/04) at my home. I was very close to my dad. And I was the main caretaker for mom during her long illnesses. During her last year when her health was deteriorating, I would go home and cry in bed. Frequently, after I was composed, I would feel someone or some thing sit down on the covers against my lower legs and feet. No one was there nor did I see any indentation. But also frequently, I would feel this sensation work its way up against my legs to just below the hips. I found this comforting but also puzzling. After mom passed, this stopped until recently. I was feeling down when I went to bed one night and asked out loud for either of my parents to come and sit by me, telling them I needed some comforting. A couple of nights later, I experienced the covers pulling tight again but it was a lighter touch or pressure and it stayed by my lower legs/feet area. This has not happened since. Am I crazy? Am I just wishing this for myself? If it i a visitation, how do you know who or what it is? It's very easy to assume that my father was sitting with me while mom was so ill, but how do you explain the second episode and lighter pressure? I did lose a daughter shortly after birth 31 yrs ago and mom saw a young girl in my doorway a few days before she passed. Could this have been my daughter waiting for my mom and sitting with me? I've seen you in PA and read your responses faithfully.
Thank you,
Linda
Linda,
NO! Of course I don't think you are crazy . . . so let's get that out of the way immediately. As I stated in a recent newsletter, we don't always know who the DP's visiting us are unless there is clear validating information. Now in saying that, let's review the situation. You received a visitation while your mom was sick that you felt was your father. After your mom passed, you asked out loud for either of your parents to come and sit by you, and Bingo! There it was. Wonderful! Since the experience after your mother died was similar, it could very well have been your father again. Similar methods of contact are just one of the ways we can tell who it is that might possibly be visiting us. However, in this instance you say that you experienced the covers pulling tight again but it was "a lighter touch or pressure and it stayed by my lower legs/feet area." So, there was a difference! Let me ask YOU, what was your first impression when you felt the light touch? Often, first impressions are the best indicators of what is really happening. Perhaps the lighter touch was an indication that it was your mother. Then again, in your letter to me, after you focus on the lighter pressure you immediately note that you did lose a daughter shortly after birth 31 years ago, and also ask, could it have been her? Of course it could have been. Especially since we know that she has visited before - when your mom saw a young girl in your doorway a few days before she passed. I believe that it was your daughter in the doorway then and I bet your mom was thrilled to have that wonderful visit prior to her transition. And I believe that your daughter was there again to greet your mom during your mom's actual transition. But as to who it was that came when you asked for and received a communication, it seems that there are at least three possibilities: your dad, your mom, or your daughter. Since I'm sure you realize that the visit was rooted in concern and love, that is the main thing. As noted earlier, sometimes we are just not sure who the visiting DP's are.
I know all of this requires lots of faith. Just remember that it is faith and not craziness that is actually involved.
Many blessings to you,
Suzane
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