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The first question in this newsletter was sent to me by Sharon:
Suzane,
I have a wonderful little girl student "G" who hears the voice of "X," someone who is dead. While alive, X was sexually abusive to this girl. She hears his voice saying to her to kill herself. We want to give X the message to leave G alone. She is depressed and wants to get on with her life. Could you please tell X to leave G alone?
Thanks,
Sharon
Sharon:
This is a deeply difficult yet important subject to address. First all, I don't believe this is "the spirit" of X himself necessarily connecting to this young girl. It might just be the energy and memories of these horrible events coming back to haunt her in this way. There are professional counselors who may be able to help G with her psychological processing, if she feels that that is the right way to go for her.
If it is indeed the spirit of X telling G these horrible things, she will have to be the person who makes the demands that he leave her alone. Only she can be the one to tell X to move on his way. It will be empowering for her to do so. I would suggest that you have G consider calling on her angels, and guides and God to stand by her as she tells X, "You are not permitted to disturb me any more. I demand with that you LEAVE immediately. You are not to enter my vibration ever again!" Repeat this message until he goes, and if ever he returns.
Also, please tell G to be VERY strong and direct and persistent in her prayers for help. It is wonderful that you are trying to help her. Please keep me posted on how G is doing.
Many blessings,
Suzane
This second question was sent to me by Sandy:
Suzane,
My son has said he sees mostly dark things since he was a young child. He is now 23. As he has gotten older, the things seem darker. When he was little he talked a lot about angels and there were always children around him, but things changed as he got older. I was wondering why the things around him would get darker as he gets older?
Sandy
Sandy:
There are many things and events that could have happened to your son. Sometimes these things fade away as a child gets older but if they have a deep emotional residue, they can, as in your son's case, become more intense. Since I don't know what exactly your son is seeing or has seen, it's difficult to say exactly what may or may not be happening. It may or may not be of a paranormal nature. I certainly think some kind of spiritual environment (not necessarily religious — no disrespect intended), counseling, or maybe connecting with people his own age in a spiritual setting may provide some answers. I'm familiar with where you live, so might I suggest that your son check out some of the programs for young people at Omega. It just might be a way for him to connect with like-minded people who could benefit him on his journey.
Please keep me posted on his progress.
Many blessings to you and your son,
Suzane
This final question was asked by Linda:
My dad passed on July 6, 2005. He and I had a rocky relationship at best. I had a dream where he came to me and said he couldn't move on until stuff between us was resolved. In that dream, I remember it vividly, I told him, we're good – you can move on. I have to assume that was my subconscious talking and that down deep I am ok with our relationship and have forgiven him. Here's where it gets confusing. Consciously, I just don't know or think I feel that way. I'm confused as to how to interpret this mixed message. During my dream, I really felt like we were good and all was forgiven. When I talk about him now though, I still feel anger and disappointment. Do you have any insights for me on this?
Thanks in advance for any light you can shine on my question,
Linda
Linda,
When we are in the dream state, we are open and free to communicate and connect without most of the anger or difficulty felt while awake. Here you were connecting to your father without the feelings associated to the times when he was here in the physical. Besides having the connection of a loved one, the ability to communicate and connect with anger or difficulty while in a dream or meditative state is one of the most wonderful things that can happen to us on a spiritual level.
But when we wake up again, we resume dealing with things with our conscious minds, the past feelings and emotions come back to haunt us, and we become less forgiving.
It's natural to go through this process. Forgiveness is essentially what we're talking about, being able to forgive. This is a most difficult thing for most of us to do, yet so very important and perhaps the most profound.
My best advice is to keep your heart open to trusting the process of forgiveness, which I believe your father wanted so much for you to know and experience through his visitation. Although it will at times be difficult, the rest is up to you. You may ask him again for a needed visit or sign to once again help you with the forgiving process. He is in fact there to help you.
As you proceed, don't be too hard on yourself if things don't always go right. The fact that you want to open this door, and your heart, are most significant steps toward your healing.
Blessings,
Suzane
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