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The first question in this newsletter was sent to me by Lori:
Dear Suzane,
I hope you can help me, my son died 5.5 months ago and I have been trying to communicate with him and unable to. I pray and ask God to send my spiritual guide to me and to take me to the Other Side so that I will be able to see and talk to my son, but so far nothing has worked. He has appeared in dreams to his 3-year old son and also his younger brother but not to me. I haven't dreamed since the night of his death, I don't know if that is significant or not.
I have received several signs from him - a flower that was totally a different color appeared the day of the funeral after I had prayed the night before for sign that he was safe and was ok. It was only on one branch and was not there the day before and continues to bloom on that one branch. I also have had several other signs in the way of electrical disturbances but I really want to see and talk to him. Can you give me any suggestions?
Thank you,
Lori
Lori:
My deepest regrets for the loss of your son. There are no words that can describe your grief, which is so intense that you feel that you're not communicating with your son when in fact you are. The flower for one thing right after your prayers. Plus signs of an electrical nature which is another way that DP contact happens. You are in fact receiving communications from your son, and you need to recognize and appreciate them for what they are - signs and connections of his love for you.
Sometimes we lose sight of the fact that communication is very different after a physical passing. And that most DP connections are not dramatic, such as through sight or conversation. To be sure, we can't talk the same way that we did with our departed loved ones, and most often we don't get to see them either. Which is why we have to stay open to the many ways that DP contact can happen.
I speak about the types of DP contact in all my books and at my events, which you might want to check out sometime. Meanwhile, I would suggest that you need to be patient, honor your grief, and continue to trust the DP contact process which is in fact working for you.
Also, make sure that you be kind and loving to yourself during this time.
My prayers go out to you and your family,
Suzane
This second question was sent to me by Moon:
Hi Suzane,
I would like to ask you your thoughts on numerology I was talking with my friend one night. And we were talking about numbers. My favorite is 7, always has been. My friend told me that was God's number. So after talking with her I began noticing that number was all around me. My house number for example is 295 all if you do the math numerologically, it equals 7. My license plate has my house numbers in it all equaling 7. I just find it odd. I also moved into my new house on 7/25 and my husband came the following month on 8/18. I know in my heart I'm right where I'm suppose to be. But any thoughts on this would greatly be appreciated. Thank you.
Moon
Moon:
What you are describing is very common. Most of us have numbers that occur over and over in our lives. I also believe that this type of process happens when our departed loved ones come through and make their presence known through a relationship to numbers. I wrote a section in my book, Everything Happens for a Reason, about such an incident, involving a father who lost his son, and all the variables of messages through numbers.
Your friend is right. 7 is the number all theologians agree is connected to spiritual matters. There are 7 chakras, for example, which in the Bible are referred to as the Seals or Veils.
As for why this number 7 keeps coming up for you, honestly only you can answer that. Since it seems to happen frequently I would suggest for you to observe and remember when it's happening. Ask yourself, "What is going on? Do I have people or circumstances in my life that maybe connected to that number?" And so on.
Glynis McCants, a wonderful numerologist, has a show on Contact Talk Radio on Fridays, where I have my show. You may want to tune in and listen to learn more. Visit www.contacttalkradio.com.
Hope this helps.
Blessings,
Suzane
This final question was asked by Lisa:
Dear Suzane,
I first heard you on 96.5 FM in Connecticut many years ago. I did, in fact, get through on the phone with you in the spring of 2007 and what you told me was right on! Thank you! My mom & I had the opportunity of attending one of your seminars in Enfield, CT this past fall and it was an amazing experience!
We were hoping to get a message from Laurie, my twin sister who passed on January 10, 2006 after a short battle with cancer at the young age of 45. Although Laurie did not come through, I have gotten many messages from her since her passing.
Laurie was born with Cerebral Palsy and spent her entire life in a wheelchair. Laurie was full of life, patient, kind, trusting, always smiling and so very brave. Laurie loved everyone and was loved by everyone she met. She was the light in our lives and always included in all family functions, activities, holidays and outings despite her disability. Laurie loved life.
Laurie was our teacher.
There is a whole other world out there that the majority of people will never experience. It takes a special family to be blessed with a disabled child. I don't know why God chose us or why God took Laurie from us so young. Someday I hope to find these answers.
I know that Laurie is now walking, running, dancing, laughing and cancer-free on the Other Side. I also know that I will see Laurie again and I look forward to that day.
My question is, how can I help my mom to embrace and reflect on the positives of Laurie's life? She seems only to reflect and live in the negative. I know that my mother will never be the same, nor will any of us. How can I help my mom to cope? I do know the grief of losing a twin sibling but can only imagine the grief of losing a child. It must be at times, unbearable.
On a final note, I would like to share a poem with you and your readers. This poem was written by one of Laurie's elementary school aides many years ago.
(Editor's Note: Poem is included below in "Thoughts from Suzane")
Thank you Suzane, for sharing your gift.
Sincerely,
Lisa
Lisa,
I have to say that this poem is one of the most touching and beautiful I have ever read. I can see why your sister choose your family to be in - and I can see why you experienced such a special happening with this beautiful soul.
I have heard people speak about how others like Laurie were such wonderful loving teachers. Yes, you are right - the majority would not understand that a special connection and learning comes from such a soul.
I have no doubt that you have received messages from your sister. I believe she would want you to know that yes - she is running, laughing and being free.
Grief is such a individual process, and you are right, we may never be the same after a loved one leaves us in the physical. God knows how hard this is for your mom. Remind her how Laurie would feel knowing that her parting is causing pain when Laurie wanted nothing but to give joy. I believe in my heart that Laurie would want all those people she loves to live life as best as possible. Celebrate that she is as free as you say - that is the best gift her loved ones here can give her now, in return for all the gifts she has given them.
I know none of this is easy. But just maybe by you and your mom and everyone else who loved Laurie placing themselves in Laurie's position, that will help everyone see what Laurie would want her loved ones to feel.
I have kept the poem . . . and will end the newsletter with this poem in my thoughts. Thank you so much for giving me the opportunity to share it here.
My blessings go out to all you and your family,
Suzane
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