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The first question in this newsletter was sent to me by Brenda:
Suzane,
I know you are coming to my area of Roanoke this month and I am so looking forward to it. I wondered if you could tell me if my family will come through then. I'm bringing my brother who lost his twin brother and he's having a very hard time and says there's nothing here for him anymore. He's so lost without his twin. We are bringing some of their items.
Always love seeing you.
Brenda
Brenda,
I'm very much looking forward to returning to the "Hope for the Holidays" event in Roanoke on December 3rd. It's always so special to see everyone in the Virginia area again, and meet new folks. I'm always so graciously greeted which of course makes me feel so welcome.
I'm deeply sorry for the loss of your brother, and of course for the twin brother's loss. As we all know, twins have that very special bond.
I would suggest that the family continue to rally and support your brother as much as possible. To be honest, there is no magic wand to relieve a personal loss. It's a path each of us must walk - unless we are the first to go!
Please note that I don't have any control over what DPs show up or get through to deliver messages at my events. This is always one of the most difficult aspects of my public work - to not be able to serve everyone personally. At the seminars, many often find that even if their own DPs do not come through, just being in a room with so much DP activity, warmth, love, and energy is often very healing. It is in fact miraculous in a way to witness the loved ones who are there to connect. However, if nothing clicks for you at the seminar, there is always the private session alternative to consider.
Another point . . . yes, you may bring personal items if you wish. They may come up in validation but it's not necessary to have personal items along to receive a message. I know many people want to do something to help facilitate a connection, and if you feel bringing personal items will help, please feel free!
All the best to you and your family,
Suzane
This second question was sent to me by Amy:
Dear Suzane,
I have been listening to you on "Craig and Co." for many years now and am always moved by the effect you have on people whom you are able to connect to the loved ones they lost.
I lost my grandmother in 2002 and still miss her so very much. I named my daughter after her (she was born in 2001) so I didn't know my grandmother's death was so near. She was my best friend. We lived together for many years and somehow I believe her death was somewhat my fault. In 1995 she fell and broke her hip while walking on the path next to the house. I didn't return home for many hours (I was in my early 20's) but I feel had I been there she would not had suffered so much and perhaps recovered much more quickly. I don't know if that is even reasonable but I can't help feeling it. She passed in my arms and took her last breath as I was giving her all my love.
I would love nothing more than to know that she is OK and looking after her eight year old namesake. Please answer me if and when you can, if not now maybe another time . . . my grandmother won't be going anywhere . . . (wink, wink)
Just know that each time I listen to your show I have to bring extra makeup to work because I am so moved.
Thank you for your time.
Amy
Amy,
It sounds like you have a wonderful grandmother and even more, a wonderful connection to her. It is very a big part of most of us who have such a strong connection that we feel that we've not done enough for our DPs when they were here.
Rest assured that your grandmother is okay on the Other Side, and of course looking after her eight year old namesake. You gave your grandmother a great honor by naming your daughter after her. Yes, your grandmother knows how much you love her.
STOP kicking yourself! When we're in our twenties, we don't often get home right away. If you were meant to prevent this occurrence, you would have been there to do so. I assure you that your grandmother never held on to this when she was here; nor would she want you to be holding onto this undeserved and self-imposed guilt for the rest of your life or even another second. Rather, your grandmother would want you to remember your time spent together, and the marvelous connection you had and still have.
Finally, I feel compelled to tell you that you can talk (our loud or telepathically) to your grandmother yourself and tell her all this. For there is no separation when there is love, not even death.
Keep listening to Gary's show . . . I always love coming to your area.
Warmly,
Suzane
This final question was asked by Jodi:
Suzane
A number of years ago my brother-in-law passed away. He was due to come home from the hospital but left us that night. I was awakened that night with what looked like him telling me it was OK. Can this actually happen? It has me wondering if it is true.
Also, this past May my sister-in-law passed as well as my brother-in-law's wife. I would like to know if they are together once more.
Thank you,
Jodi
Jodi,
The answer to your question is absolutely Yes! These things happen. Our DPs not only come to let us know that they are OK, but it is their responsibility to do so. And they do it in whatever ways they can to get through to us, because they love us.
Being aware is all about knowing that those we love who have crossed over are OK on the Other Side. And yes, part of their job when they get there is to help us in our process.
I would also add that you were the receptive one to receive this connection of love which was why your brother-in-law came to you.
Since there was definitely a love connection between your brother-in-law and his wife, yes, they are together. It is very common that one partner passes not very long after the first partner's passing. There are many statistics showing this scientifically and it honestly makes a lot of sense when there is such a strong connection.
And yes, if your sister-in-law was part of that love connection, she is together with the rest of the family.
I hope this provides you with some comfort, although I know these losses must be very hard to bear. But for those still here on Earth, to know that those we love are still connected to us can help us feel a bit better in some way. Which is why your brother-in-law came to you in the first instance.
Warmly,
Suzane
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